HumanLove often fails because it is a product of self. Never be surprised when it disappoints or fails.<p>The LoveOfTheLord is a fruit of the HolySpirit. It never disappoints or fails - 1Cor 13:8 <p>The HolySpirit always operates in the love because He is love. He makes us good and able to bear good fruit.<p>So check your words and actions with the test of love. It they are not proceeding from the LoveOfTheLord then they are likely to be doing more harm than good.