A victim has no Responsibility for his condition.
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Our Choices have Consequences .
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If bad things happen as a result of our decisions we are not victims. We are perpetrators.
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If a person does not take Responsibility for their own bad decisions they are incapable of being Saved .
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How so?
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Because Salvation is dependent on a person recognizing their sinfulness and then making a decision to Repent ( Change their Mind and Attitude ) and to Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ .
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A victim Refuses to accept Responsibility for their Sins and so they see no need to Repent and hence they See no Need for a Saviour .
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Stop coddling and start telling those in your circle that they <b>must</b> Repent in order to be BornAgain and to enter the Kingdom of God .
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It is the Truth that sets us Free .